We live at a time when the media celebrates mere external beauty
and popularity. To keep up with the trends of fashion and constant
societal demands, people try to alter and tailor their lives by hiding
what is underneath and exposing people to another false image – one that
is masked with makeup. But where are your self-confidence, kindness,
and goodness? Here are some things people who do not wear makeup
understand.
1. They understand being appreciated for who they are
They are realistic and true to themselves. When they are with people,
they don’t have to be worried that they are being stared at for looking
like a comic heroine. They can relax and enjoy being appreciated for
their natural selves.
2. They can save time
It takes time to apply make-up and try to look out of the ordinary.
All that time can be spent doing something worthwhile, perhaps being
punctual and reading an exciting book.
3. They don’t need to satisfy anyone
They understand that people’s tastes differ. They don’t try to adjust
their standards to meet these tastes and look cheap. Rather, they
validate their self-worth by looking pleasant and appealing primarily to
themselves.
4. They can save money
Let’s be realistic with ourselves. Beauty products cost money, and
most of the time there is no guarantee of a return on investment for the
amount you put into it. People who do not use makeup can save money and
time doing and trying to pursue other worthy endeavors.
5. They become more appealing in other ways
At face value, perhaps, people will be attracted to you for your
appearance. But this is never lasting. What is sustaining are such
immaculate qualities like kindness, warmth, and affection. These amazing
qualities do not need to be beautified by makeup, but by age and by
appreciation of not only yourself, but also the world around you.
6. They can build sustaining relationships
People who do not wear makeup can be who they are and command
attention. Whoever is attracted to them is concerned about what is
underneath their skin and is comfortable with their total appearance.
These kinds of relationships are built to last, since they are not built
upon a selfish foundation.
7. They have self-confidence
They do appreciate what they have in their bodies and their inner
selves. They do not lack or try to hide flaws or inferiority. They have
dealt with that already and are confident of what they showcase to the
world.
8. They can deal with life’s changes
Whether we like it or not, we will all be victims of time and age.
People who don’t wear makeup refuse to run from this fact. Rather, they
can deal with life’s changes and instabilities.
9. They define their own happiness
They know what happiness means. They can relate to the simplicity and
amazing details of life rather than the sophistication and luxury that
makeup offers. They don’t have to cover anything,
especially their glad smile.
10. They do not worry about skin damage
They don’t have to fear or worry about the highly allergenic and harmful ingredients that are contained in many makeup products.
11. They do not need to follow the pack
They think independently. They do not need to be victims of what the
media propagates, particularly, that you need makeup products to be
complete. They are already complete and comfortable with who they are.
12. They can be listened to
Because they have focused on building other aspects of their lives
rather than just their facial appearances, other people are more
interested in what they have to offer. They are not stared at, but
listened to for their inner power and inner beauty.
13. They are treated with respect
Since they have confidence and respect, people can relate and
identify with their positive energy. They are treated with respect and
never abused or considered less than their counterparts.
I am not sure why I put on make up for my new passport picture....I probably won't wear any....when I travel this month. I even don't take time for much lipstick.
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