I guess I would have to say my greatest insecurities stem from my childhood. 1. Never as good as... whether it be my siblings, or employee... I was never as good as the last woman they were with, I was never as good as... I had plenty of people remind me plenty of times that I was never good enough. From parents, to bosses to husbands... 2. My looks. If you would see me, you would understand. My second husband used to call me a 'frump'. And then wondered why I was insecure. 3. I am not worth. I was NEVER worthy enough to remain faithful too.